October/November 2003 Issue Number 52
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to the daily challenges faced by fire and emergency services managers.
Current topics in the areas of leadership development, workplace diversity,
change management, and conflict resolution will be discussed.
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Women
Chief Officers Conference November 6-9, 2003 Plantation,
FL. Go to www.womenchiefofficers.org
for more information.
IAFF
Human Relations Conference January 25-28, 2004, Santa Monica,
CA. Linda Willing will be presenting a workshop at this conference.
For more information, go to www.iaff.org.
Maryland
Fire Rescue Staff and Command School March 17-24, 2004, Memphis,
TN. Linda Willing will be teaching one segment of this seminar. See
www.mfri.org for
more information.
Leadership
Training Seminar
, March 25-28, 2004, Miami, Florida. Go to www.wfsi.org
for more information.

When Silence Isn't Golden
Open
conflict in the workplace makes people feel uncomfortable and it distracts
from productivity. Therefore, it must be best to suppress or ignore
interpersonal conflict in the workplace, right? Wrong, according to
Professor Leslie Perlow of the Harvard Business School.
According
to Professor Perlow, a corporate ethnographer, the old adage "if
you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" is dead
wrong. Conflict is not only inevitable, but is an important part of
a healthy work environment. And the outright suppression of conflict
can lead to very bad outcomes. Professor Perlow calls it the "vicious
spiral of silence," which destroys relationships, wastes time,
and undermines productivity and morale.
The
result of an organizational culture that suppresses conflict may be
as simple as holding useless meetings because no one will stand up
to say what they really think of them. Or a culture of silence could
result in engineers knowing of a life safety risk that they cannot
report to others in the organization, as was the case with the recent
Columbia space shuttle disaster. Whether the result is wasted time
or lost lives, any organization will be better off if it can recognize
and manage the conflicts that come from differences among individuals
and groups.
But
being able to effectively manage conflict is not something that people
are naturally good at. Quite the contrary; most people do not like
confrontation, and have been socialized to "go along to get along"
rather than to raise issues of real concern to them. Although such
an attitude may work well for small disagreements, suppressing real
differences and conflicts will only lead to bigger problems down the
road.
Leaders
in any organization need to learn skills to manage and constructively
use conflict. These skills include the application of appropriate
assessment tools, communications skills, and decision making and facilitation
expertise. Most importantly, leaders need to learn not to fear conflict
nor to take it personally, but rather to see it as an opportunity
for real growth within their organizations, and ultimately, within
themselves.
Source:
The New York Times, August 3, 2003